The wedding vendor search can be overwhelming. There’s so much talent out there to compare, and you’re trusting them with one of the most joyous and delicate days of your life.

Where do you even begin?

Having been in the wedding industry for 10 years now, I’ve met and collaborated with countless wedding vendors in the 100’s of events I’ve documented. In an effort to make your vendor search easier, and in order to lift up other small businesses I love, I’ve collected my favorite wedding vendors (aka “friendors”) in this exhaustive list.

Here you’ll find professional, experienced vendors vetted and curated by me, with an emphasis on those who are not normally centered in the wedding industry, including queer & BIPOC-owned businesses, and those who are values-driven and prioritize eco-friendly practices in their businesses.

Note: I have no business agreement with these folks, just support and love. 💛

Happy Booking!

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Catbus Collective

“Catbus Collective is a Brooklyn-based seven-piece jazz ensemble founded by Jasper Dutz that specializes in anime soundtracks, Studio Ghibli, and City Pop jazz covers. Active since fall 2023, they have become a premier NYC Nerd Culture band, performing at venues like Umbra and The Red Pavilion, featuring trombonist Peter Lin. Catbus is a truly unique musical choice for wedding parties who are fans of high-energy performances, cosplay and jam sessions.”

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Brass Queens

Brass Queens is a female-led, New York-based brass band that has been dominating the brass band scene since 2019.

Finding that they shared similar frustrations about the emerging brass band scene in New York City, co-founders Alex Harris and Ally Chapel came together to form a group dedicated to showcasing the talents of female musicians in a landscape that was dominated by male musicians and bandleaders. After debuting in March 2019, Brass Queens grew to be a fixture in the local music scene and was dubbed "the hardest working band in town" by their peers. The Queens gained a dedicated following through outdoor performances on the streets of Brooklyn and playing pop-up events in their community through the pandemic. Now, a core value of the band is to play for as many audiences as possible to increase the visibility of female musicians.

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Honey + Vinyl

Honey+Vinyl is a Brooklyn-based boutique music agency and multi-piece band founded by Sonic Sommelier Keanna O'Quinn, specializing in highly curated, live music experiences for NYC events. They offer a unique blend of jazz, soul, R&B, and pop, designed to create soundscapes for events.

The band provides custom music experiences for weddings, special events, and high-end collaborations while specializing in creating a "soundtrack" to the event's story. Keanna believes strongly in

using the science of sound to align music with the atmosphere, ensuring a curated experience.

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The Revisionists

“Danny Jonokuchi & The Revisionists are “today’s premier swing band” (Broadway World) from the heart of New York City. With the spirit of the Savoy Ballroom, their vibrant performances have quickly made The Revisionists one of the top-tier dance bands where they have filled dance floors across NYC. Fueled by an unwavering love of dancing, their music has been described as “smile-inducing” (DownBeat) as well as “crisp, clean, and refreshingly joyful” (Syncopated Times).

Their latest album, Together Again (2022), was released following their headlining performance at Lincoln Center’s Summer For The City Festival. In 2020, they were unanimously named the WINNERS of the inaugural Count Basie Great American Swing Contest for their virtual performance of “One O’Clock Jump”. The award-winning track included on the Late Night Basie album, alongside a star-studded roster of artists paying tribute to the great Count Basie. They have performed live with special guests including Grammy award-winning vocalist Catherine Russell.”

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